July 2007


I have talked before about how sometimes, the best of times, the funnest and funnyest, happen randomly, when they are unplanned and just out of the blue and spur of the moment. Sure, a good planned party with friends, or weekend getaway with details all worked out can be good in it’s own right. But there is something to be said for the goodness that comes out of spontaneity. Like that time when my roommate and I went out to pick up a gallon of milk to enjoy with a warm treat, and ended up at a bar downtown, meeting half of the city fire department. If that doesn’t speak to the power of spur of the moment I don’t know what does.

A similar scenario occurred last night (minus the firemen, unfortunately). After she returned from the Cape and I woke up from my afternoon nap, we decided to walk downtown to the brewery and grab a bite to eat. We each had a Sam Summer look-alike (it was pretty much a Sam Summer, just a locally brewed version of it). We did some people watching and realized that we could work at this joint and not have to worry about driving or having to wear any special outfit (having worked in the restaurant business before, I’m kind of done with the crisp shirt/blank pants required getup). Apparently the waiter is allowed to sport his chain-wallet-look and that’s okay at this place. Which we thought was pretty interesting, and are now thinking that a part time bartending job might not be so bad.

And since it was still before 8pm, at which time we thought a Lifetime movie would be a swell way to top off the weekend and start the week off on the right heel, we had time to head next door to this little pub that we used to frequent back in the days when we lived with two other hotties from college. The four of us girls would hit up this haunt both Friday and Saturday nights as if it was our job, on a pretty regular basis. Then we realized that we were in fact, not in college anymore, actually had a real job other than bar hopping, and really just kind of dug the band and the Irish bartenders, and that was the extent of it.

On a Sunday night, this little pub offers a whole nother’ scene. Gone are the jam packed Saturday nights with the band and the Jack and Cokes that we’d consume as we tried to avoid another frat guy trying to mack it. Last night, Irish music was the tune, and we just so happen to learn a couple new key dance moves (quite similar to Elaine’s moves in that Seinfeld episode, if you ask me), which we later demonstrated for Cosmo in the living room. I didn’t know Irish dancing was all that “in” really? (if that’s even what you’d call what these two uh, ladies?, were doing in the corner of the bar with some jazz type, pointy black flats on?) Anyway, it offered us some serious people watching entertainment, and we decided to screw the potential Lifetime and instead ordered a second, real, Sam Summer.

As we sipped on our beer, rehashed some good stories from back in the day, baffled by the fact that summer is flying by sofast, we met Carl Winslow. No, not the real Carl Winslow that we all know and love, but it might as well have been. He was a dead ringer, and even though my roommate and I had already decided this would be our last beer of the night, as it was a Sunday (and it seemed like the right thing to do?), seeing this guy pretty much sealed the deal that we would, in fact, stay for another round. How could we not? This was serious as Carl was all smiley and looking friendly as he ordered some turkey dinner and offered my roommate his mashed potatoes, so we couldn’t just leave. It would be wrong.

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Well Carl manages a Friendly’s, and you can bet that even though this isn’t a usual restaurant that we visit, we now have an in with good ole’ Carl. The conversation was quite entertaining with the three of us. Carl seemed to be right on top of the fact that we simultaneously cleared away our beers, at which time he suggested that he order us a “real drink.” He thought it was odd that we were drinking beer (this is where Carl and I differ), saying that there was something “nice, about women drinking a Cosmopolitan.”

Minutes later, Irish bartender had placed two cocktails in front of us, and we were cheers-ing with our new pal.

Key moment was when Carl made it clear that this wasn’t a “boy meets girl” situation, a disclaimer which roommate and I found quite amusing and have now worked this into our lingo.

So I guess there’s another one. Another random occurrence, spur of the moment and not planned. We had many laughs and sure, came home on a Sunday night with a spec of a buzz; but it was very worth it. I’m not sure Cosmo enjoyed our antics all too much, as he was not too cooperative with us. Two grown women, skrinkering around on the kitchen floor, chasing a kitten around to make him “dance” didn’t seem to be amusing him. He wanted out, at which point we gave him a treat and topped the evening off with a couple Stuart videos, which always leave us in tears of laughter.

I swear, you couldn’t plan these nights. And really, that’s what makes them so much fun.

He told me he’d be wearing a college tee shirt, and I said I’d be the girl waiting for him with a red rose on the table.

I was kidding; he wasn’t. 

You know that when you can comfortably have a conversation with someone on various topics, including (but not limited to):  

  • masturbation
  • purses
  • work
  • family 
  • blogging
  • podcasting
  • sexual favors
  • cats

that said person has a permanent spot on your blogroll.

The time spent with Chris today over lunch, was not short on laughs, that’s for sure.  He had me at his very proper usage of the word skrinker.

He even sat quite patiently as I took way too long to order my meal, and didn’t make fun of me as I all but licked my plate clean.  The food was delish, and the company was quite enjoyable!

We even got a picture (no thanks to the couple who didnt’t speak much English, who when Chris politely asked if they would snap a shot of us replied, “I never knew how to do that, cameras.”)  The young boy in the icecream shop next door saved the day though, so not to worry.

I had a blast today hanging out with a great person.  Makes you feel all warm and fuzzy inside about this whole blogging thing.  It truly is one of the really great side pieces to it all, the wonderful people that we get the chance to get to know through this.

I think all you blogbuds are just wonderful.  Truly, I feel very lucky to know you all.

Now I must get to bed, for I have to be up in less than 5 hours, at 3:30am for a triathlon that I’m volunteering at tomorrow.

I’ll be taking a cat nap with this guy in the afternoon, that’s for sure. 

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Hope that everyone is having a fabulous weekend!

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It’s no secret that I love me a man in uniform.  And lest some of you think that it’s only about the handcuffs, let me just clarify:  the hose is cool too. 

Okay that sounds just as kinky. 

Whatever.

Firemen.  I will never not swoon for this uniformed type.  Sure, a good cop, the authority thing, the gun, the badge, the cuffs, it’s all fine and good.

But firemen, they just have a whole nother’ appeal, dontcha think? 

 

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My interaction with the blond firemen on the main road I drive daily to and fro work has me feeling more than a spec tongue tied tonight.  Rest assured I will be back with more details of said encounter when I’m able to gather my thoughts and cool off.

 

 

(It’s not so much of an encounter as a mere conversation that just about made my month.  Yes, that’s right.  Month.  So it doesn’t take much to amuse me, and what?)

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Holy hell have I had a week.

You know, not a bad week, per se.  Just one of those weeks that doesn’t really leave one with that warm and fuzzy feeling inside.

Not that I necessarily know what a “warm and fuzzy” week would entail?

It’s just that I haven’t had any extra time this week to just sit.  To breathe.  It’s been not the week from hell.  Nothing earth shattering or not good happened.  It’s just that type of week that’s so jam packed, that by the end of each day your head is spinning.  And pounding.

And there was really no end in sight.  With something going on every night after work, I never even had the chance to checkout Lifetime.  To paint my nails.  A weekly exfoliating mask.  Cards to friends.  No time to clean, or take care of my finances.  No time to read, and no time to catch up on celebrity gossip!  I don’t think I had one homecooked meal this week.  And I love me a homecooked meal!  Actually I take that back.  Thursday night I had a homemade meal at my grandparents house, and that was delicious.

But other than that it was go go go and I felt at times like my mind would explode.  Or implode?  It was hard to focus at work.  I slacked on my phone calls to friends and we all know how I love a good phone call.  I didn’t work out as much as I would have liked.  I didn’t even get to drink enough milk.  Now you know it’s a busy week when milk consumption is at an all time low.

However, good things about this week (because I’m a silver lining girl), included:

  • Dinner with one set of grandparents earlier in the week, and the other set with the homemade meal later in the week
  • Drinks with my good friend Kristen who just moved back from NYC
  • A new shirt I got on sale
  • A concert on Wednesday with my hysterical cousin, with seats on the floor!
  • Dinner with my friend B
  • Another shirt on sale
  • The anticipation of baby holding today at my friend’s son’s birthday party
  • With an Elmo theme
  • New lipgloss

So, truth be told, it wasn’t so bad.  It’s just one of those weeks.  Plans are good.  Leaves no room for boredom that’s for sure.

But damn if I’m not craving just a blank day to do absofuckinglutely nothing.

It was out of the blue. I didn’t have a heads up that this was going to happen. We had not spoken in weeks, no phone calls or emails. No suggestive IMs too late at night. I hadn’t had any cocktails, hadn’t heard a song that reminded me of him. Had not had any updates through the grapevine; I wasn’t even sure how he styled his hair now, and hair I know. I was simply sitting on the couch in my living room. I was flipping through the glossy pages of a Blueprint magazine, planning curtain colors and imagining placement of accent rugs. When it hit me. Like a ton of bricks and out of no where, it came upon me. My eyes filled up. I thought of him. Again with the no warning. My roommate came out of her bedroom, prettied up for a night out, and smelling of a new Victoria Secret scent. I explained to her what happened. Neither one of us knew what to really say. She just sat down next to me, close to me. I leaned my head on her shoulder, and we both sat together, in silence. Just knowing that I could tell her, that I could say in so few words that it had happened again, unexpectedly, and that I didn’t need an explanation for it, was comforting. The tears went away as we pulled our of our driveway and made our way to dinner. I opened up the passenger side window, breathed in the familiar humid breeze of a New England summer, and smiled at the little girl playing in the grass across the street.

Well, the weekend has come and gone.  I finished my first triathlon, and I had a blast doing so.  I didn’t finish in any high rankings, but I did finish, I did have fun, and I think I had the largest cheering squad (both in real life, and virtually!) there.  My parents and a whole crew of my friends came out to cheer me on, and the feeling of seeing them all there to support me was pretty amazing.  I feel overwhelmed with the support that I had there, both with my friends, and through the triathlon club I’m a part of. 

The race went well, for my first one.  It was a wicked hot day, and very humid, so the run was a bit tough.  The run is right by the water, and unfortunately there isn’t any shade whatsoever.  The bike ride went alright; it’s definitely my weakest leg of the race, something I’ll need to focus more training on for next time.  And the swim went very well for me, in the river!, so I felt good about that. 

Anyway, I finished!, I had fun, and that’s really all I can ask.  I look forward to signing up for another one sometime this summer, and at least now I will know what to work more on, have a time to compare to, etc.

Hope that everyone in the blog world had a good weekend and is enjoying the summer which just seems to be flying by.

“Again,” thanks to all of you who left such encouraging messages, sent ecards!, emails, and supported my efforts last weekend!  You all rock, hardcore.

As I sit here, ready to call it an early Saturday night in prep for my race tomorrow, I can’t help but feel just a spec sad for the two parties that I am missing this evening.

#1- A Passion Party and anyone who knows me, knows how down I’d be with that scene.  An all girls night, with wine, appetizers, gossip, and um… products for “passion?”  Yeah, cannot believe I’m missing this one.

#2- A Hollywood Trash Party.  Yes, that’s right.  Three of my best friends are going to this one hosted by a group of our friends.  My blondie roommate is going as Paris Hilton (with the fake dog in her bag).  My red headed beauty is going as Lindsay Lohan (complete with the drawn on freckles, and purse filled with random alcohol bottles, as well as a bag of “coke,”).  And other best with brown locks is going as Winona Ryder (with shades and a purse that has dangling articles of clothing with price tags still on).  On a scale of 1-10 on how upset I am to miss this one?  I’d give it an 11.  I love dress up.  Damnit!

But, it will be so worth it tomorrow right, with the cupcakes at the end (that I still have to make).  Or hell, who am I kidding?  A few cold Sam Summer’s with my cheering crew will be just the perfect way to wrap the whole event up.

Hope everyone is having a wild and crazy Saturday night.

Oh and PS- Best of luck to Egan in his Triathlon tomorrow as well!  Woot!

****UPDATE****

I want to thank everyone for all of your good luck wishes and support lately!  The triathlon went well yesterday.  I finished and had a blast, and that’s really all I was hoping for.  At least now I have done one, have something to compare to, and work towards.  Thanks again to everyone who virtually cheered me on! :)

Can I just say, that when I finally buy my own digs (that is, when I am no longer throwing my money away to rent), I would love more than anything to have a whirlpool jacuzzi?  Yeah that’s right.  I just spent the past 45 minutes soaking in a whirlpool of bliss.  That sounds a bit kinky, and I’m fine with that.

The really good news of the day is that I somehow sweet talked my way out of that $335 dollar cell phone bill of late!  I still have to pay a bit extra, but I was able to work my way into a different plan, which they kindly backdated so that my last month’s bill isn’t so high.  See, I truly believe that if you want something, sometimes all you have to do is ask.

One of my favorite bloggers told me that even though I have already done a 100 about myself, and a few other about-me type things, that I could still stand to do eight more.  I was also tagged by Ryane a bit ago, to do the same thing.  So, I guess it’s my turn!

8 MORE things about me, that you may or may not already know…

1- A big pet peeve of mine is when people start a sentence with the word “again.”  I especially am irked by this when the person is stating something that they have not previously said.  Because then it’s not “again” right?  It’s for the first time.  Either way, said or not said already, I really hate the use of “again” as the start to a sentence.

2- I have a sweaty hand problem.  This has been going on my whole life, pretty much.  Attractive, I know.  It’s been a source of embarrassment (and some good laughs) for many years.  It makes dating (when it gets to the hand holding stage which I am hesitant about for this very reason) a spec interesting.  I have to explain the situation to guys, because truly, it’s not a result of being nervous or anxious.  It’s just how I roll.  One time, my doctor suggested I use deodorant on my hands.  Deodorant.  Right.  So not happening.

3- If I feel like I need a good cry, I have some staple go-to movies to help with the process.  They include, but are not limited to: My Best Friends Wedding, Philadelphia, Stepmom, Beaches, and Hope Floats.

4- I’m not sure what this means about my mentoring or parenting skills?, but here’s two things: I was a Big Sister for a good chunk of time to a young girl, who during the duration of our Big Sis/Little relationship, got preggers.  At 13.  She’s due any day now.  And number two, last week I came home to two, unopened condoms lying on my bedroom floor, and Cosmo was pawing at them.  So Little Sis got prego, and Cosmo wants me not to.  Interesting.

5- Sometimes I wake up in the middle of the night and make myself a glass of chocolate milk. 

6-When I find a new song that I like, I put it on repeat, over and over, perhaps a spec obsessively.  Until I learn and understand the lyrics, I listen constantly.

7- People often tell me that I have really nice teeth.  Oftentimes these people are elderly.  I think my teeth are okay I guess?, yet this compliment sometimes catches me offguard.

8- I find Jim Carrey very unfunny.  And pretty annoying.  Okay, not in Dumb and Dumber, but that’s it. 

That is all.  Hope that everyone has a LUCKY Friday the 13th!

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You know it’s bad when you’re at work on a Tuesday, the receptionist calls you to tell you your client has arrived, and you say, that you will “be right out, just a second,” because you are googling images of cupcakes.

That’s how much I’m craving one of these puppies today.  Searching the internets for pictures of cupcakes because I all of a sudden have a weird hankering for them.  The funfetti kind.  With the yummy frosting. 

The thing is, I never eat cupcakes.  I hardly enjoy frosting, and am not a big cake girl.  But I can’t seem to get the craving for a good cupcake out of my mind.  I’m not sure where this is stemming from, but it’s probably a bad sign that I’m considering skipping my run tonight to hit the food store for cupcake batter?  Just sayin.

Speaking of running and the like, training and such, perhaps now that I think of it, the funky cravings (because oh have there been others!  like Funyuns.  Who eats Funyuns, seriously?) have arisen because I’m feeling just a tad stressed lately.  And tired.  The triathlon is this Sunday, and as if just doing my first one alone wasn’t nerveracking enough, add to that a painful back situation that I got going on, and I’m feeling just a spec panicky. 

And I just don’t like taking meds.  The doctor said to be taking Ibuprofin and Extra Strength Tylenol, and now I have a prescription for some muscle relaxant to take at night.  I tend to usually try and stick the pain out, work it out by stretching and yoga and bathtubbing.  But this time it’s too sore to do much of all of that, so I have no choice to take the meds, and I just don’t really love that idea.

In other news, Cosmo was understanding last night, and actually slept right next to me, purring away and didn’t wake me up once.  He must have known that I was needing some extra rest this week.  What a little gem he is!

And I talked to Mr. Friday and have decided to go out with him sometime next week or next weekend.  When I have a little more time and am feeling more up to it.  He’s a nice guy, and even though the friend card might need to be pulled, he’s still fun to hangout with and I’m going to do my best not to lead him on if I don’t feel the butterflies next time.

That’s pretty much all.  There isn’t too much else going on here other than some really hot and humid weather and some baking that might need to take place tonight.

Oh, and how about the poor man who DIED in the swim leg of a triathlon, in Mass this past weekend?

Encouraging!

Hope that everyone is having a good Tuesday.

 **UPDATE**

Still haven’t made any cupcakes yet, plan to do so on Sunday.  But I did find this gem of a website.  And um, I’m in heaven.

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